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On Saturday, I woke up around midday and went straight to my social media pages to catch up with the world. Guess who I see, my ‘boyfriend’ adorned in groom attire exchanging vows with another woman. To say I was shocked is an understatement
I had been dating this man for about three years. Things were serious to the extent that he had met some of my family members who adored him. One Friday, he asked me out on a date and after the meal, he drove me home. On Saturday, I woke up around midday and went straight to my social media pages to catch up with the world. Guess who I see, my ‘boyfriend’ adorned in groom attire exchanging vows with another woman. To say I was shocked is an understatement. Anyway, I nursed my heartbreak and moved on, knowing that he will never bother calling me. I was wrong, after a year, he calls and says he wants us to meet. What do I do with such a man? Anonymous. ………………………………………………………….…………
It is unfortunate that your ex-boyfriend treated you this badly. When we fall in love with someone, we hardly ever imagine them causing the most pain in our lives. If it was possible to know this beforehand, then many people would be saved from heartbreaks. The only way to know this is through interaction and the behaviour that one shows towards you. Love is tasted when two people are able to live together despite their shortcomings and despite the fact that there are always better people out there.
Love cannot be hidden under the bed, it is proved with actions, especially the ones between a man and a woman. However, it is also possible to meet someone who might shock you just like your ex-boyfriend did. The important thing is to remember that this is not your problem and instead, your ex could be struggling with finding happiness with his new wife. Click to read more…